Sunday, March 29, 2026

Firenze, or How I Learned the Hard Way That Cappuccino Has a Curfew



I remember being fourteen, seated in a classroom that smelled faintly of chalk and humidity, listening to a history lesson about the Renaissance, the so‑called rebirth of the world. It sounded grand, almost theatrical. Names like Leonardo da Vinci, Michelangelo, Raphael, Sandro Botticelli, the Medici, and Caravaggio were spoken with a kind of reverence usually reserved for saints or national heroes. Italy, we were told, had once erupted with art and intellect, as if the entire peninsula had collectively decided to outdo itself.

At fourteen, I believed it. At my age now, I wanted to see if it still held up.

Twenty‑two years later, I got the chance to fly to Italy.

Firenze was next.

I left my main luggage in Rome, which felt less like a strategy and more like a surrender. Anyone who has dragged a full‑sized suitcase across uneven cobblestones knows that there comes a point when dignity is abandoned in favor of survival. Francesca, the hotel’s front desk manager, had witnessed my earlier struggle. Just me versus gravity, friction, and poor packing decisions. She seemed quietly relieved when I told her I was traveling light this time.

“I’m going to Florence and Pisa for a few days,” I said. “I left my big luggage in the room.”

She smiled, the kind of smile that suggested she had seen far worse. “Don’t worry. You enjoy your trip to Firenze and Pisa.”

Her thick Italian accent made it sound less like reassurance and more like permission.

February in Italy is unpredictable in the way teenagers are unpredictable—sunny one moment, brooding the next, occasionally dramatic for no clear reason. Rome had been in one of its moods during my stay, so I approached Roma Termini with cautious optimism. The station itself operates on a philosophy that can only be described as “you’ll find out when you find out.” My train platform appeared about ten minutes before departure, which was apparently enough time if you already knew where you were going and had accepted a certain level of chaos.

I boarded, slightly breathless but victorious.





As the train pulled away, Rome’s outskirts gave way to the softer, more forgiving landscape of central Italy—rolling hills, scattered farmhouses, the occasional cypress tree standing like punctuation marks in a sentence I couldn’t quite finish. I tried reading The Ghosts of Rome by Joseph O’Connor, but travel has a way of humbling your intellectual ambitions. After rereading the same paragraphs twice, I gave in and slept, which felt like the more honest choice.

I arrived at Santa Maria Novella Station under a sky that couldn’t decide what it wanted to be. Florence, however, seemed entirely certain of itself. I checked into a hotel conveniently located two blocks away (a decision born from recent trauma) and stepped out into a city that did not need good weather to impress.

There is something about Firenze that resists description, not because it is overwhelming, but because it is assured. The streets are narrow, the buildings old without being fragile, and everything feels as though it has already outlasted whatever threatens it next. You walk without urgency, because the city does not reward haste. It reveals itself in fragments—an archway here, a quiet piazza there, a detail you almost miss until you stop looking for it.

I made my way, inevitably, to the Officina Profumo‑Farmaceutica di Santa Maria Novella, a place that predates most countries and smells like it knows it. For someone who takes fragrance seriously (perhaps too seriously), it felt less like a shop and more like a pilgrimage. Inside, Canon in D played on a loop, because of course it did, and the air was thick with carefully constructed scents that suggested history could, in fact, be bottled. I wanted everything. My bank account disagreed. I settled on a bottle of Tuberosa and left with enough free samples to convincingly pretend I had exercised restraint.





Florence’s history is not subtle. It announces itself in stone and scale, most notably in Santa Maria del Fiore, whose crimson dome rises above the city with the confidence of something that knows it will be photographed from every possible angle and remain impressive. As I walked toward it, watching it grow larger and more improbable, I couldn’t help but think of the Medici family, who once turned banking into an art form and, in doing so, funded an entire era of genius. It felt less like visiting a landmark and more like stepping into a long‑running narrative that had simply made room for me.

And then there was the food, which in Italy is never incidental. I found myself returning, repeatedly and without apology, to Trattoria Za Za, drawn by the kind of cooking that makes you reconsider your standards elsewhere. The bistecca alla fiorentina was unapologetically large, the truffle carbonara indulgent in ways that felt both excessive and necessary, and the tiramisu quietly perfect.

It was also where I committed what I would later learn was a minor but telling offense.

After a late lunch, around half past two, feeling entirely pleased with myself, I ordered a cappuccino. The server delivered it with a smile that hovered somewhere between politeness and mischief.

“Here’s your cappuccino, signor,” he said. “Good morning to you.”

It took me a moment. Then another. I responded, with the confidence of someone who does not yet realize he is wrong, “Well, it’s my first coffee of the day.”





He nodded in a way that suggested the conversation was over, but the judgment was not. It was only later that I understood: in Italy, cappuccino belongs to the morning. Ordering it in the afternoon is not forbidden, exactly, but it is noted. And remembered.

Florence continued, indifferent to my small cultural missteps. From Piazzale Michelangelo, the city unfolded in a way that made everything below seem both distant and entirely within reach. I stood there longer than I intended, watching as the light shifted and people moved through their routines, each one occupied with their own version of the day. Traveling alone has a way of sharpening these moments, making you more aware of your place in them. Not central, not insignificant. Just present.

On my last day, I sat in a piazza with no agenda, which felt like the most appropriate way to say goodbye. A busker began playing Sarà perché ti amo, and as if on cue, people joined in. Not all of them could sing. That was not the point. I found myself singing too, holding a pistachio gelato that was slowly losing its structural integrity, aware that this, more than the landmarks, more than the history, was what I would remember.

Che confusione, sarà perché ti amo
What a distraction, it’s because I love you

È un’emozione che cresce piano piano
It’s an emotion that grows little by little

Stringimi forte e stammi più vicino
Hold me tightly, and come a little closer

Se ci sto bene, sarà perché ti amo
If I feel good, it must be because I love you

There is something disarming about those lines. Simple, repetitive, almost careless in their joy. A confusion that makes sense only because it is felt, not explained. Standing there, slightly off‑key and entirely unbothered, it occurred to me that travel often works the same way. You arrive expecting clarity—history, structure, meaning—and instead, you get moments. Unscripted, imperfect, quietly profound.

Florence does not overwhelm you; it lingers. It stays in the senses: the smell of old stone and perfume, the taste of something indulgent, the sound of strangers singing like they’ve known each other for years. And somewhere between a misplaced cappuccino and a melting gelato, you realize that the feeling you’ve been trying to define all along is not precision, but affection.

A kind of beautiful confusion.

And if it feels right, if it stays with you long after you’ve left, then perhaps, as the song insists, it’s simply because you loved it.




Read my Italy Series

Part IV - Firenze, or How I Learned the Hard Way That Cappuccino Has a Curfew

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